Deep icebreaker questions

35 questions. Get-to-know-you questions with substance, never intrusive.

  1. What is a lesson you learned the hard way that you are glad to know now?
  2. Who is someone who has shaped the way you think, and how did they do it?
  3. What does a truly good day look like to you?
  4. What is a small opinion you have changed your mind about, and what changed it?
  5. What skill are you working on right now, and why does it matter to you?
  6. Which book, film or song came into your life at exactly the right time?
  7. What is the best compliment you have ever received, and why did it stick?
  8. What does success mean to you beyond a job title?
  9. What is a goal you have that might surprise people who know you?
  10. What small act of kindness from someone else do you still remember?
  11. Which piece of advice do you find yourself giving others most often?
  12. What is something you are proud of that no one gave you an award for?
  13. What is a question you wish more people asked you?
  14. Which personal value guides most of your decisions at work and beyond?
  15. What does treating people well look like to you in everyday moments?
  16. Where is a place that makes you feel most like yourself?
  17. What is something you have learned from someone younger than you?
  18. What would you tell yourself on the first day of your career, knowing what you know now?
  19. What personal tradition, big or small, would you like to start?
  20. Which experience taught you the most about working with other people?
  21. What hobby has taught you something unexpected about yourself?
  22. What does being a good friend mean to you?
  23. What do you hope people say about working with you?
  24. When do you feel most creative, and what usually sparks it?
  25. What challenge are you glad you took on, even though it was hard?
  26. Which moment from the past year made you see something in a new way?
  27. Which small daily habit has made the biggest difference for you?
  28. What is a risk you took that paid off in an unexpected way?
  29. Which everyday thing do you appreciate more now than you used to?
  30. What kind of problem do you most enjoy solving, and why?
  31. What is a small decision from the last few years that turned out to matter a lot?
  32. How do you like to celebrate when you reach a goal?
  33. What is a talent you admire in others that you would love to develop?
  34. What makes you feel truly heard in a conversation?
  35. What is a strength of yours that took you a while to recognize?

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